How to Lick Pussy Like an Expert

Originally titled: “How To Skillfully Lick a Woman’s Pussy (A Man’s Quick Guide)”

Cunnilingus Skills are a MUSTIf you’re a man who is looking to improve his cunnilingus (pussy licking) skills, this “quick guide” is designed to give you a basic set of guidelines that will direct you in making your wife, lover, girlfriend, etc, orgasm powerfully and fall in love with your oral skills. Of course you’ll need lots of practice to become a “master” but again: these are “quick” guidelines.

Basically, you have to have a mindset that includes the following 10 elements.

  1. Care. When it comes to becoming skilled at licking pussy, you MUST care about her pleasure more than your own! Men tend to be foolishly selfish in this regard. DON’T BE! Make yourself REALLY want to blow her mind with orgasm…to keep her in ecstasy…and you will have taken care of the MOST important step!
  2. WANT IT. This one is closely connected to #1. It’s best if you love licking pussy, as you will be much more enthusiastic. Learn to love the smell and taste of your woman’s pussy. If you do, #’s 1 & 2 will give you a huge advantage over most men.
  3. Pussy Anatomy. You must learn “where all the parts” are. Learn their names (i.e., labia minora, labia majora, clitoris, clitoral hood, urethra, etc). Read up on sexual facts, such as knowing that her minora extend outward when she’s aroused, and WHERE her clitoris is!
  4. Her Mind 1st. A woman’s arousal usually begins in her mind. If you plant the thought of sex in her mind—even a subtle hint—early in the day, for example, that hint will work in her mind to go a LONG way toward her overall arousal. Get her THINKING about sex with you all day? You’ll have a MUCH more receptive partner when you finally get to bed!
  5. Early. This is closely tied to #4. You can begin turning her on early in the morning; making her wait all day, if possible. A kiss or light bites on the back of her neck. Caress her upper arms or gently massage her neck, shoulders, and upper back. Gently caress or squeeze her ass and then move away. Starting early—hours before—actual intercourse is the kind of foreplay most women yearn for!
  6. Slow. When you two finally are in bed, don’t be so quick to get to her pussy! Lots of kissing, caressing her body [her arms, around her collarbone, her ribs, her stomach, her thighs, etc] with your fingers (make sure they’re not rough! Use hand lotion WELL in advance, to soften them up! Unless you know for a fact rough hands really make her hot), lips, and tongue! Caress every inch of her body!
  7. Tell Her. As you caress and tease her, occasionally whisper or softly tell her what you’re going to do for her…TO her! Promise her orgasmic bliss! Describe what you’re going to do to her clit! Her mind will be on getting her clit stroked, licked, etc, but when you REALLY emphasize how that’s going to happen, she’ll be DYING for that to ACTUALLY HAPPEN!
  8. Clit Avoidance. You should AVOID her clit for quite some time! At LEAST 30 minutes after you two retire to the bedroom! Once you have her naked, you can caress her breasts as well—also avoiding her nipples at first—eventually caressing, pulling, lightly biting and sucking them. Most women’s nipples are “hard-wired” to their clits. When she’s really aroused, any contact with her nipples will make her clit YEARN for contact! You want her BEGGING for you to suck or lick her clit!
  9. “Listen” to Her Body. She might not tell you, “Lick my clit!” so you have to “listen” to her body. Pay attention to her breathing; it will become deeper and heavier. When she raises her hips [or any part of her body] up to meet your touch, that means “Mmm, baby! More!” By this time you can kiss around her entire vulva…her inner thighs…GENTLY pulling on her outer lips [labia majora] with your fingers or lips…perhaps sucking on her inner [labia minora] pussy lips…continuing to AVOID or TEASE and TORTURE her clit by NOT giving it the contact she will soon be DEMANDING!
  10. Clit Assault. Generally speaking, when you get to licking her clit, (if you haven’t been torturing her, that is), start with light, rhythmic flicks of your tongue on her clitoris, either upward, side to side, circular, or whatever you discover she likes best (see #9). You can increase how much pressure you use, as well as speed of flicks with the tip of your tongue, as she nears orgasm, also judging by how forcefully she grinds her pussy into your face. You can work into sucking her entire clit into your mouth and then “biting” her clit, with your lips covering your teeth as you do so. In addition, depending on how much you’ve noticed she likes having her nipples stimulated, it’s also very nice for her if you reach up and roll and pull her nipples between your thumbs and forefingers—one hand, each breast—at the same time you suck, lick, and pull on her clit with your mouth!

Even though this is not a fully detailed “How To” on developing cunnilingus skills, if you follow these basic guidelines, getting LOTS of practice, and always remembering “Ladies Cum First,” you will soon become expert in the fine art of pussy licking!  Becoming highly skilled at cunnilingus is probably the greatest gift you can give to your woman, sexually-speaking.  Can you think of a greater memory for a woman to have of you than the fact you were a fantastic oral lover?

Neither can I!

Until next time…

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One Response to How to Lick Pussy Like an Expert

  1. shekh rabbani says:

    Hmmm…. What an idea! I am going to try this guideline very soon.

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